If you haven’t succeeded in love yet, remember that you’re in good company.Breathe deeply and remember that love is coming your way.“There are so many reasons why relationships fail to take off,” says Shari Goldsmith LISW, a life and success coach for women.“You don’t want to ‘push’ a relationship to work if it’s not meant to be.” If you’ve recently experience a failure to launch situation, perhaps the best thing is to adopt a Zen attitude about it and know that not everything is meant to be.Letting Go Cutting Ties with Your Ex Enjoying Your Life Again Dating Again Community Q&A It takes great effort to let go of failed relationships and learn to heal yourself instead of letting those complicated feelings linger.To learn how to adjust your mindset, cut ties with your ex, and start enjoying your life again, follow these steps and let the healing begin.Granted, the guy you went on a single date with who asked if you were going to finish your overpriced Spanish latte very well could have been a waste of your time.I’m talking about someone who was faithful and surrendered to God’s will during the relationship, and it still didn’t end well. We can imagine our God at the wheel, bending over to breathe in His strength and His power into the clay while He forms us, molds us and builds us up higher into exuding His character.
Don’t despair; struggling is normal and a part of the process. The path to success is laced with failures along the way. Only be afraid of not trying at all, for that is true failure. No matter how hard you try to find the “one,” it’s ultimately out of our hands. The only thing you need to do to give your relationship a chance of making it is this: You need to try. You need to honestly, fully, genuinely and lovingly do all you can to make it work. In reality, you're allowing your ego to get the best of you. But it all boils down to one simple fact: YOU are not trying. Some relationships can't be saved, but many of them can. How do you keep the two of you together when things are already starting to fall apart?These examples can be damaging when it comes to finding a partner who isn’t perfect, but perfect for you.” An extension of this is the belief that relationships should always be easy.“I’ve encountered many people who believe that relationships shouldn’t be work,” says Anita A.